Everyone desires a faithful partner. This is always not attainable. Here are 10 signs to know if your man is being un-faithful to you.
Relationships are truly remarkable and enjoyable when both parties involved are committed and faithful to each other. It could be a source of joy and happiness, a bond not easily broken, this bond is usually formed as the relationship is based solely on absolute trust for each other. Although most of us desire absolute faithfulness from our sweethearts, the opposite often is the case. How would you know your Honey is being un-faithful?
1. Frequent Fights
Every relationship has ups and downs. Since you are two different people from two different backgrounds sometimes there are bound to be Fights and disagreements however, if your man constantly fights over every little thing, always making a mountain over a small hill then, there is trouble and you should do your homework.
2. His Looks All Of a Sudden Change
So your husband has always been one of those guys who never bothered looking into the mirror more than once, never tucked in his shirt unless he had to, never cared that his socks were smelly, never wore deodorant unless you begged him to but suddenly there’s a metamorphosis. There are new
clothes, haircuts, new shoes, maybe even a manicure and pedicure! Now, there’s nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and wanting to look good but when it’s an overnight change….when you literally wake up to realize that your former slob of a husband has suddenly started to make an effort in the looks department, something is definitely brewing.
3. Womens Hair on his Shirt
This one is such a classic. Imagine this, you are folding your husbands
shirts when you chance upon a long blonde hair clinging to one of them. Now that’s perfectly fine except you are a brunette and your children have brown hair! If you notice a trend with this hair thing, maybe it’s time to question him. So if your husband is having an extra marital affair you better hope she has a hairfall problem. It will make your detective work so much easier. Maybe you should collect all the blonde
hair, put them in a sachet and throw it on his face when you question him.
4. New Smell and Its Not yours
You HATE floral fragrances so what’s it doing on your
husbands laundry? Not only that, he reeks of it when he comes home late from work and even when he comes home supposedly after a guys night out. The nauseating smell becomes increasingly familiar and it’s not yours! I think women have a keener sense of smell than their male counterparts and you should use it to your advantage. If you are a hundred percent sure that you’re not imagining it, work up the guts to ask him something like “What’s that new perfume you’re wearing? Isn’t it a little too floral for a man?”. Watch his reaction. If he cringes or seems surprised even for a second, you know somethings up.5. Liar, Liar pants on fire
It’s funny when men think they can lie to you and get away with it that easily. They obviously aren’t aware of our ridiculously strong radar that can smell a lie a mile away. Now we all indulge in little white lies every now and then. And that’s Not okay. But if you notice that your
husband has been lying to you way too often, if he hasn’t been looking you in the eye when asked where he was or why he’s late and if he has one too many excuse for his actions, confront him. Too many coverups= trouble.
6. Social Networking Sites
So you notice a sudden increase in your husbands online activity. He is on his laptop ALL the time and you know it’s not work related. He is suddenly very active on social networking sites Facebook, Myspace, and it’s not just old friends he’s catching up with. He even has new email accounts that you don’t have the password to. Tip of the iceberg: When you suddenly walk into the room, he closes chat
windows or the laptop screen itself and seems uncomfortable. Is he trying to hide his communication with someone? Possibly. If curiosity gets the better of you, try to look up history to see if you can find something and if it has been erased, you know he definitely has something to hide.
- He warily guards access to his computer.
- He shuts down the computer as you walk into the room.
- He adds password protection his computer.
- Or he stays up to "work" on the computer long after you've gone to bed.
- He has unusual sites showing in the "browser history", or erases them after each late-night session.
- He deletes email message more frequently
7. Paper Trails
- Credit card receipts for gifts you didn't receive.
- An increase in ATM withdrawals. Especially those from out-of-town (receipts bear a time/date stamp).
- Credit card receipts showing purchases from places unknown to you or that seem suspect
- He rushes to get the mail before you do.
- He gets a separate P.O. Box.
- Unusual phone numbers appearing on the bill.
- The duration and time of the calls appear excessive.
- He is secretive about his cell phone bill.
- He starts to pay it himself.
- You notice business travel or other deductions for travel or other expenses that you were unaware of.
- The passenger's seat is adjusted differently than you had left it.
- Taking child seat out of the car for no particular reason.
- Finding suspicious items like phone numbers, receipts, lipstick, condoms or strange hairs in the vehicle.
- Keeping a change of clothes in the trunk.
- Unexplainable mileage or a lack of additional mileage. For example, if your husband states that he went out of town yet the odometer indicates that only a distance of 25 miles had been driven. Conversely, if he says that he's only been to the office that day, yet their odometer shows many more miles ad been driven, this too, may be a significant matter.
9. In the Bedroom
A cheating husband…
- Is no longer interested in sex, or he/she makes excuses for its infrequency.
- Starts to request kinky or other erotic sexual activity (behavior) that you've never done before, including watching porn
- Shows a "new talent" in the bedroom (that they might have learned from the individual with whom they've been cheating)
- Appears reluctant to kiss you, or show affection toward you.
- Criticizes you for showing him attention.
- Continues giving poor excuses for why he is not in the mood to make love.
10.Odd Behavior at Home
Your partner or spouse…
- Appears distant, show a lack of interest or develop an unexplained aloofness.
- Is frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship.
- Comes home smelling of an unfamiliar fragrance.
- Wears cologne much more often than usual.
- Arrives home and heads straight into the shower/bath.
- Gets dressed up a little too well (to) for trips to the grocery or running some other kind of errand or menial task.
- Begins to speak more and more harshly to you, or are more sarcastic. Sometimes this is just an attempt to justify their cheating…or to give them an excuse to storm out of the room/house.
- Asks about your schedule more often than usual.
- Develops an increased focus on losing weight or pays more attention to their appearance.
- Stops wearing his wedding ring and, when asked, can't give a reasonable explanation
If you are experiencing this please read the Following you need to read it Now!!!!
1.Realize that things like this happened for a reason I know this is hard to swallow but it did.
2.This does not make you less of a woman and you are not alone in this, there are millions and millions of fellow sisters that are going through the same thing as you or worst.
3.Realize that this is not your fault in anyway.
4.You had no control over this situation, take time to be mad, sad angry, but come back and gather your thoughts writing in a journal or a notepad helps greatly.
5.Write a letter to God and tell him how you feel. The Only one who can give you strength is him nobody else, Day 1 to day 30 is the worst and patience seems like your enemy because the whole world just came down, just realize that your Man is very imperfect and so are you, He has done something that kills the heart, Mind and spirit, but there is one thing he cannot get to and that is your soul as a woman you are stronger than you think.
6.Alot is passing through your mind, Kids, Finances, Loneliness, Divorce, Separation, A Move from your Current place, it is very difficult, you just cannot believe it, the man of your life just made some serious decisions that hurt you and the ones around you, is he stupid?? doesnt he realize what he just did? You dont feel like talking to anyone because you feel like they make everything that much worst by asking you questions, you have to be a strong woman for yourself and your children and to make him realize that he is weak and in the midst of this trouble you can rise up and be strong with God's strength because we cannot do it ourselves.
My Sister I love you and where ever you are I just want to let you know one thing, You are loved by a man more powerful than anything you can imagine and he will NEVER leave you or forsake you and he will always be faithful to you. His Name Is JESUS CHRIST and He thinks YOU are to DIE for.
